So, are Bethenny Frankel and Eric Stonestreet dating or nah?

There's LOTS of buzz linking reality star Bethenny Frankel to Modern Family star Eric Stonestreet, and we're just like, "Oh, OK. That's, um, interesting."

But, what we think about them as a couple is irrelevant.

What we really need to figure out is whether or not them hanging at parties, going to baseball games and dining out together has turned into a relationship.

The best way to do that? Digging through their social media posts and trying to decode them -- duh!  Let us begin...

So, he's met her friends?

So, now they're Twitter official?

So, his text game is strong?

So, is that a no?

But, what about Drake and all the other black guys she "needs" to date? #shade