Stressed about the election? You're not alone. How to stay calm.
With the midterm election less than a week away, scores of Americans divided by their support for Republicans or Democrats also are united – by stress.
And it makes sense why they are. "The midterms determine the balance of power in the Senate and Congress. This has, arguably, significant consequences," says Mona Eshaiker, licensed therapist. "With the ever-increasing political polarization in the U.S., every election can feel like an 'us vs. them' battle, where our beliefs and values are potentially on the chopping block."
It seems to have only gotten worse, too. "Research suggests that election anxiety increased between 2016 and 2020," says Marsha Brown, a licensed psychologist. "With growing fear for the future of human rights, health care, the economy and other life issues, it seems election anxiety may have risen again since the previous election cycle."
Stress triggers the release of cortisol, the so-called stress hormone, William Heckman, executive director of the the American Institute of Stress, has told Paste BN. This affects mood, motivation and fear.
“It works with parts of your brain and the physiology of your body,’’ he says. “You need some of that (cortisol) to be motivated. But too much of that, you live in a state of ongoing anxiety, which is very bad for you.’’
Still, the Nov. 8 elections will affect everyone differently. "Different people have had different experiences in the past," says Smriti Joshi, chief psychologist at Wysa, an AI mental health platform. "And there have been genuine triggers, which can be leading people to feel worried and stressed about the upcoming elections."
Keep these tips in mind for combating stress before, during and after Election Day.
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'Master your morning'
Nefertiti Nowell, a licensed clinical professional counselor in the Chicago metropolitan area, subscribes to this motto: “If you can master your morning, you can master your day.’’
She recommends brief stretching exercises and writing down something you’re grateful for – preferably a new source of gratitude every day. Yoga, deep breathing and meditation can be added to the morning ritual, but it’s not necessary, according to Nowell.
"I’ve learned that if it’s anything over five minutes, people are less likely to do it,’’ she says. “Everybody has three minutes to get their blood flowing. And so if we take those three minutes to do that, then it really gets us centered for that day.
“It’s more about mental health than it is just physical health. It’s the getting the blood flowing for the body but even for you to say: ‘I have control over something. I’ve got control over three minutes of my morning.’ ”
Brown adds: "Be sure to engage in activities that replenish your mental, physical and emotional stores. Identify the activities that fill you with energy and make time to complete them. Not sure what you find restorative? Think of activities you’ve always wanted to try or those you enjoyed as a child. Finding activities that work for you is a process that usually involves trial and error."
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Turn off your news alerts
Yes, it's OK if you need to. "Ensuring the hour before you go to bed is free from electronics is helpful to wind down and keep the nervous system regulated," Eshaiker says. "Similarly, you can limit yourself to media blocks throughout the day. For example, only checking the news for 30 minutes twice a day. This way you are less likely to (doom) scroll or go into an anxious spiral."
Also remember that you don't need to talk about the election. "It may also help to set boundaries with family, friends and co-workers who try to pull you into political conversations," Brown says.
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Channel your stress
Instead of pacing your home afraid, if you have the bandwidth, go forth and galvanize voters in your community. "Many individuals get a sense of purpose and strength by channeling their anxiety into action," Eshaiker says. "This can look like attending a town hall, volunteering at the polls, canvassing, protesting, information sharing, attending workshops and seminars. Being part of a group can also provide a sense of support and community."
And of course, vote. Eshaiker adds: "This can help alleviate feelings of stress and gain a sense of control. Although we cannot control the outcome of the elections, every vote truly matters. After voting, many people express feeling empowered and accomplished."
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What to do after the election is over
Chloe Carmichael, a licensed clinical psychologist in New York, recommends making plans for after you vote – for anything from having lunch with a friend or exercising.
She also suggested writing a one-page journal entry recording your thoughts and feelings about the election.
“Sometimes writing it all own can relieve our brain of the burden of feeling like you have to keep all of those points active,’’ Carmichael says. “And thinking about the idea of potentially that page being passed on down to our children or our children’s children can also help to put the whole event into a little bit of perspective.’’
Remember too that politicians are people and contain multitudes. "Black-and-white thinking can fuel the flames of anxiety," Eshaiker says. "No one is 'all good' or 'all bad,' and no situation is 'all good' or 'all bad.' Finding the gray area in any political election can be a helpful way to embody a balanced perspective."
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Once the day is done, Eshaiker suggests a media cleanse: "This can be as little as one day without looking at the news or social media. Or a week depending on what you think you may need. The point here is to help regulate your nervous system after election season to get your mind and body back to homeostasis."
Consider professional help if stress persists. "Explore what exactly about the election is causing you stress. Is there one issue or one politician in particular you are preoccupied by? Oftentimes, when we find ourselves fixated over an issue, it can mean there’s something deeper going on," Eshaiker says.
We have about 40,000 thoughts a day, Joshi says, and our thoughts are not facts.
"It's very much possible that we can work through these opinions, through these thoughts, with the help of a professional or self-help techniques that you may pick up from various applications or from books."
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