18 crucial things to discuss when considering a career change
Thinking of changing careers? Great! Now it's time to tell your people.
Spouses, kids, partners, parents, friends, and even faithful pets will be affected by your decision to make a professional transition. To make sure they're on board from the beginning, it's important to keep them abreast of your decisions, progress and feelings.
Not sure where to begin? Here are some discussion points about communicating your career change to those you care about. Looking for more career-change guidance? That’s why Lightpost is here. The new Paste BN Network website provides free custom step-by-step guides to life stages like changing careers.
Apply common cents:
1. Discuss finances with family, friends
It's easier to conserve expenditures when you're up front with the people who matter. Understand the importance of candor and reassurance.
2. Appreciate what you already have
“More” is the mantra for so many families. Help your loved ones appreciate all that they do have in their lives.
3. Share the bright side of spending less
Your focus on cautious spending now is all about a nicer future for everyone.
Stay connected:
4. Reach out to your most important person
This is the individual who shares your entire journey. Remind him/her of their importance. And acknowledge the realities that lie ahead.
5. Tell your “inner circle” what's going on
You'll know when the time is right. Sharing your dreams and goals adds a new round of energy and purpose to your pursuits.
6. Be sensitive to your children's emotions
Kids need to feel safe and secure. Explain the concept of a new “job” in a simple, direct manner that also radiates positive enthusiasm.
Remember to listen:
7. Let everyone share their feelings
Family and friends will have personal reactions to your career vision, and opinions and support may change over time.
8. Know when to respond without words
Quiet acknowledgement works best sometimes. A simple smile or a gentle touch may be all that's necessary.
9. Be mindful of what goes unspoken
Do your best to stay alert to feelings that aren't expressed in words.
10. Ask your people, young and old, to express their dreams
You're more of an inspiration than you realize. Showing that it's good and healthy to have big dreams awakens everyone.
Lessen the pressure:
11. Expand your support system
Find valuable resources beyond family and friends for guidance and peer support.
12. Stop sounding like a broken record
People may love you, but a little career-change chat goes a long way. Find other things to talk about and you'll always have their attention.
13. Share excitement and exhale together
When you share encouraging progress and milestones, everyone has a reason to smile and relax.
14. Find a balance between the “old” and “new” you
A career journey is just part of who you are. Your family needs the comforting foundation of the “old” you as well. Don't lose it!
Take your time:
15. Put the brakes on hasty decisions
Wanting to restore a soothing “hum” to your world is only natural. But reinventing yourself takes time and careful thought.
16. Chasing your tail puts everyone in a tailspin
When your anxiety level ramps up and you're spinning like a whirling dervish, everyone you love is also caught up in the drama.
Have fun:
17. Plan a vacation close to home
No need to rack up the miles to enjoy beautiful lakes and beaches, ski slopes, historic sites and parks.
18. Enjoy simple pleasures at home
Laughing makes everyone feel good all over, and lighthearted movie romps can be just the ticket. Ask the kids to create pictures or collages of what they imagine you'll do in a new job, and enjoy their creativity.