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Wash. Mom devastated after burglar steals unborn daughter's ashes


LACEY, Wash. -- A Washington woman says she's heartbroken after a burglar stole her unborn daughter's ashes.

Jessica Heffner kept her unborn daughter's ashes in a locked safe inside her home because they are one of her most prized possessions. The ashes are all she has left of a girl she named Hope -- an unborn baby she never got to meet because Hope died when Heffner was 21 weeks pregnant with triplets.

Now, the surviving triplets and the rest of the family have lost Hope for the second time.

"That was the only thing actually, the only thing I have of her," said Heffner. "I didn't get a picture. I didn't get to hold her. Didn't get to see her at all. All I had were her ashes."

Someone broke into Heffner's home Wednesday and ransacked it, according to authorities. Investigators with the Thurston County Sheriff's Office say the burglar stole electronics and medication, and then found a key to the family's safe, from which they took the tiny velvet bag that contained Hope's ashes.

Heffner thinks the thief likely thought there was jewelry inside the small bag.

"All I want are her ashes back. I don't want any of the other stuff, I don't care. I just want my daughter back," said Heffner. "I don't know how to move forward from this, if I don't get the ashes back. I don't know how to move on from that."

So far, investigators have no leads in the case. Anyone with information is asked to call the Thurston County Sheriff's Office.